When something that is both good and bad comes along, you have a dilemma. You miss it if it isn't there anymore and when it's there, you can't stop thinking of the bad things. This holds true for so many parts of life. Why does everything have to be partly good and partly bad in this world. Can't things just be BLACK AND WHITE. I know I've said this before, but it keeps coming back. Things would be so much simpler if the phrase "To some extent..." and its equivalent sayings didn't exist.